“Your potential, the absolute best you’re capable of—that’s the metric to measure yourself against. Your standards are. Winning is not enough. People can get lucky and win. People can be assholes and win. Anyone can win. But not everyone is the best possible version of themselves.”
―
Ryan Holiday,
Ego Is the Enemy
“There is no good or bad without us, there is only perception. There is the event itself and the story we tell ourselves about what it means.” ― Ryan Holiday, The Daily Stoic Journal: 366 Days of Writing and Reflection on the Art of Living
“Impressing people is utterly different from being truly impressive.” ― Ryan Holiday, Ego Is the Enemy
“Think progress, not perfection.” ― Ryan Holiday, The Daily Stoic Journal: 366 Days of Writing and Reflection on the Art of Living
“And that’s what is so insidious about talk. Anyone can talk about himself or herself. Even a child knows how to gossip and chatter. Most people are decent at hype and sales. So what is scarce and rare? Silence. The ability to deliberately keep yourself out of the conversation and subsist without its validation. Silence is the respite of the confident and the strong.” ― Ryan Holiday, Ego Is the Enemy
“When intelligent people read, they ask themselves a simple question: What do I plan to do with this information?” ― Ryan Holiday, Trust Me, I'm Lying: Confessions of a Media Manipulator
“Those who have subdued their ego understand that it doesn’t degrade you when others treat you poorly; it degrades them.” ― Ryan Holiday, Ego Is the Enemy
“We forget: In life, it doesn’t matter what happens to you or where you came from. It matters what you do with what happens and what you’ve been given.” ― Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“The obstacle in the path becomes the path. Never forget, within every obstacle is an opportunity to improve our condition.” ― Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“Most successful people are people you’ve never heard of. They want it that way. It keeps them sober. It helps them do their jobs.” ― Ryan Holiday, Ego Is the Enemy
“Focus on the moment, not the monsters that may or may not be up ahead.” ― Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“Almost universally, the kind of performance we give on social media is positive. It’s more “Let me tell you how well things are going. Look how great I am.” It’s rarely the truth: “I’m scared. I’m struggling. I don’t know.” ― Ryan Holiday, Ego Is the Enemy
“When we remove ego, we’re left with what is real. What replaces ego is humility, yes—but rock-hard humility and confidence. Whereas ego is artificial, this type of confidence can hold weight. Ego is stolen. Confidence is earned. Ego is self-anointed, its swagger is artifice. One is girding yourself, the other gaslighting. It’s the difference between potent and poisonous.” ― Ryan Holiday, Ego Is the Enemy
“If an emotion can't change the condition or the situation you're dealing with, it is likely an unhelpful emotion. Or, quite possibly, a destructive one. But it's what I feel. Right, no one said anything about not feeling it. No one said you can't ever cry. Forget "manliness." If you need to take a moment, by all means, go ahead. Real strength lies in the control or, as Nassim Taleb put it, the domestication of one's emotions, not in pretending they don't exist.” ― Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“Wherever we are, whatever we’re doing and herever we are going, we owe it to ourselves, to our art, to the world to do it well.” ― Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“Where the head goes, the body follows. Perception precedes action. Right action follows the right perspective.” ― Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“When success begins to slip from your fingers—for whatever reason—the response isn’t to grip and claw so hard that you shatter it to pieces. It’s to understand that you must work yourself back to the aspirational phase. You must get back to first principles and best practices.” ― Ryan Holiday, Ego Is the Enemy
“The only real failure is abandoning your principles. Killing what you love because you can’t bear to part from it is selfish and stupid. If your reputation can’t absorb a few blows, it wasn’t worth anything in the first place.” ― Ryan Holiday, Ego Is the Enemy
“The pretense of knowledge is our most dangerous vice, because it prevents us from getting any better.” ― Ryan Holiday, Ego is the Enemy: The Fight to Master Our Greatest Opponent
“There is no good or bad without us, there is only perception. There is the event itself and the story we tell ourselves about what it means.” ― Ryan Holiday, The Daily Stoic Journal: 366 Days of Writing and Reflection on the Art of Living
“Impressing people is utterly different from being truly impressive.” ― Ryan Holiday, Ego Is the Enemy
“Think progress, not perfection.” ― Ryan Holiday, The Daily Stoic Journal: 366 Days of Writing and Reflection on the Art of Living
“And that’s what is so insidious about talk. Anyone can talk about himself or herself. Even a child knows how to gossip and chatter. Most people are decent at hype and sales. So what is scarce and rare? Silence. The ability to deliberately keep yourself out of the conversation and subsist without its validation. Silence is the respite of the confident and the strong.” ― Ryan Holiday, Ego Is the Enemy
“When intelligent people read, they ask themselves a simple question: What do I plan to do with this information?” ― Ryan Holiday, Trust Me, I'm Lying: Confessions of a Media Manipulator
“Those who have subdued their ego understand that it doesn’t degrade you when others treat you poorly; it degrades them.” ― Ryan Holiday, Ego Is the Enemy
“We forget: In life, it doesn’t matter what happens to you or where you came from. It matters what you do with what happens and what you’ve been given.” ― Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“The obstacle in the path becomes the path. Never forget, within every obstacle is an opportunity to improve our condition.” ― Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“Most successful people are people you’ve never heard of. They want it that way. It keeps them sober. It helps them do their jobs.” ― Ryan Holiday, Ego Is the Enemy
“Focus on the moment, not the monsters that may or may not be up ahead.” ― Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“Almost universally, the kind of performance we give on social media is positive. It’s more “Let me tell you how well things are going. Look how great I am.” It’s rarely the truth: “I’m scared. I’m struggling. I don’t know.” ― Ryan Holiday, Ego Is the Enemy
“When we remove ego, we’re left with what is real. What replaces ego is humility, yes—but rock-hard humility and confidence. Whereas ego is artificial, this type of confidence can hold weight. Ego is stolen. Confidence is earned. Ego is self-anointed, its swagger is artifice. One is girding yourself, the other gaslighting. It’s the difference between potent and poisonous.” ― Ryan Holiday, Ego Is the Enemy
“If an emotion can't change the condition or the situation you're dealing with, it is likely an unhelpful emotion. Or, quite possibly, a destructive one. But it's what I feel. Right, no one said anything about not feeling it. No one said you can't ever cry. Forget "manliness." If you need to take a moment, by all means, go ahead. Real strength lies in the control or, as Nassim Taleb put it, the domestication of one's emotions, not in pretending they don't exist.” ― Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“Wherever we are, whatever we’re doing and herever we are going, we owe it to ourselves, to our art, to the world to do it well.” ― Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“Where the head goes, the body follows. Perception precedes action. Right action follows the right perspective.” ― Ryan Holiday, The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
“When success begins to slip from your fingers—for whatever reason—the response isn’t to grip and claw so hard that you shatter it to pieces. It’s to understand that you must work yourself back to the aspirational phase. You must get back to first principles and best practices.” ― Ryan Holiday, Ego Is the Enemy
“The only real failure is abandoning your principles. Killing what you love because you can’t bear to part from it is selfish and stupid. If your reputation can’t absorb a few blows, it wasn’t worth anything in the first place.” ― Ryan Holiday, Ego Is the Enemy
“The pretense of knowledge is our most dangerous vice, because it prevents us from getting any better.” ― Ryan Holiday, Ego is the Enemy: The Fight to Master Our Greatest Opponent
