"It does not matter how long you are spending on the earth, how much money you have gathered or how much attention you have received. It is the amount of positive vibration you have radiated in life that matters."
-Amit Ray
From a practical point of view, for all of us who have no ability to discern the will of destiny! All we can do is to accept and deal cheerfully with whatever situations arise in our lives. We can believe that whatever situations we face, these have been allotted to us because they are for our best and highest good.
'highest good' may include undergoing pain and pruning. Pain is a part of growth. We are undergoing and clearing our karma. So whatever circumstances we find ourselves in, whatever the challenges, whatever the hardships, or whatever the joys, we can believe they have all come to us for betterment.
As well said by the wise ," Do your best and forget the rest."
Right action and surrender are two sides of a coin.
What would be the impact of adopting this approach to life?
Rather than resisting, we accept and adjust to the ups and downs as they come.
Resisting the force of destiny shakes up our equilibrium , whereas acceptance brings equanimity within us.