"Like crying wolf, if you keep looking for sympathy as a justification for your actions, you will someday be left standing alone when you really need help."
Criss Jami
Have you seen a Shy kid?
Very quiet.
In the corner.
Silent.
Observing.
I've been one ! Shy, silent , sophisticated.
Very much like an obedient kid who believed in resolving her own queries , curiosities and confusions all by my own.
Then some sudden life incidences and transitions made me realize that my fact encyclopedia of magic , science and spirituality can be widen up if I prefer expressing.
Expressing to the wise , to whom I can rely upon!
Indeed , it helped.
I'm expressive now. Pretty much very inclusive.
Sure bet.
But the ridiculous paradox here is
"Justified means just as if you've never sinned."
so there is a thing about justifications, I need not to explain everything to everyone
niether it's an assurity that you'll feel elated everytime when you make a confession or clarification.
"Everyone has their own ways of expression. I believe we all have a lot to say, but finding ways to say it is more than half the battle."
when you grew up , you understand where to express.
and there's gonna be people who might not match your frequency. And that's perfectly awesome!
when you find a fraternity in which you are consistently comfortable , your perception changes.
and change is good.
really good.
And
in the end , I'd like to mention my favorite film's dialogue :
"Grief does not change you, Hazel."
- Movie : Fault in our Stars.✨
Be the change!
-Yati