The journey of life is like a road and in this journey we meet many people. The time they spend, the memories they create or the relationships, they have with those people are either worth remembering like milestones or like stones on the road that are sharp and make the journey more difficult or inaccessible.
Surely one would like to remember only the pleasant experiences of the journey and forget the unpleasant ones. I would also like to spend my time or have a relationship with only those people in my life with whom I would have had pleasant experiences. If I think from another person's perspective then that is how anyone would want to remember me and not as an unpleasant experience.
There is no control over the thinking of any person, any person can show love and sympathy for a particular person and have feelings of hatred and jealousy for another person at the same time . It can be understood for which person he will be remembered as a memorable milestone on the road and who will remember him as a troublesome stone on the way. An ordinary person can have feelings of love, sympathy, jealousy and hatred for any person according to the circumstances.
Perhaps it is not possible that we can become a memorable experience or memory in everyone's life but we can definitely try that we are not remembered as a bitter experience.